Island

Is it possible to understand and condemn together?...I think one can never condemn if one truly understands....but then full understanding is an impossibility......after all we can live only under our own skin....it is so alienating to be misunderstood ...to find no confirmation of one's beliefs, ideals and actions.......to be alone...like an island...disconnected....But, I wonder if understanding is necessary......Can't love suffice?......Understanding is limited by the mind.....love is not.....Love perhaps is based on knowledge that everyone is bewildered by the world ...the strange fact of existence...and that everyone tries to cope in their own way....and suffers in their own way....